Best Gifts for 40-Year-Old Women (Even the Picky Ones)

Jenni Kayne Anything

If she doesn’t already own something from Jenni Kayne, this is your sign. The Shearling Moroccan Slippers or Cashmere Cocoon Cardigan are classics for a reason. I own the slippers and a sweater from there, and they are next-level luxurious — and have lasted me for five years and counting.

Mejuri Jewelry

Mejuri makes minimal, timeless, and high-quality jewelry without the designer markup. They have gold hoops, dainty necklaces, and stackable rings that are perfect for gifting since they’re simple, and even those who are extremely picky will like most of their designs. I own both the Sapphire Huggies and the Satellite Necklace and have gifted both to friends.

A Classic Purse

A leather crossbody or structured tote is a gift she’ll use for years. Choose a neutral color like taupe, ivory, or cognac for a classic option. I gifted this Classic Easy Tote to my employee and was jealous when I saw it, so I got one myself, and I can say it’s one of the best mom purses. Or get a unique shape like the Cuyana Dia Bag, which I own and love.

A Chanel Bag (or Similar Designer Splurge) – A forever piece that says “you’ve arrived.” If a Chanel isn’t in the budget, look for vintage or preloved options (which I actually prefer), or go for a Celine, YSL, or Polène bag for that same elevated aesthetic. The RealReal and Fashionphile are reputable places to shop for preloved designer bags.

Ring Concierge Jewelry – There’s a reason they say diamonds are a girl’s best friend. Tommy got me diamond studs similar to these for an anniversary, and they’re something I always look forward to wearing. If you want to shop online, Ring Concierge or Brilliant Earth is a reputable store. I also own these diamond huggies from Ring Concierge and these bezel studs from Brilliant Earth, and they’re both truly stunning.

Cashmere Sweater – You can’t go wrong with a luxe cashmere sweater from Jenni Kayne or Quince. It’s timeless, soft, and versatile. You can even get luxury options under $200.

Espresso Machine – I had wanted the Jura ever since I used one on our trip to Dominica. It makes remarkable espresso and lattes with the push of one button, no barista skills required. If she wants to be more involved in the latte-making process, the Breville Barista Express is a great pick, or she can go sleek with a DeLonghi espresso machine. Pair either with pretty glass mugs for bonus points, but there’s no need.

Lounge Set or Robe – I have multiple lounge sets and robes that I use every single day. My favorite all-weather robe is from Weezie, and my favorite winter one is the Cozy Robe from LAKE. And my favorite loungewear is from LAKE, hands down. I love the Relax Jogger Set too. (Size up if you’re on the fence.)

Cute Mahjong Mat – A playful, aesthetic gift she can enjoy with girlfriends. Throw in these mahjong tiles and you’ve got a complete set.

Personalized Tote – A monogrammed canvas tote (think the Paravel Cabana Tote or the Mark & Graham Raffia Tote) is both functional and personal. This is something I don’t own and would personally be excited to get!

LAKE Pajamas – If I know one thing, it’s that moms love a good, cute pair of pajamas. I’d recommend this Pima Bundle or the DreamModal Kimono Set (ridiculously soft). Read my LAKE review for sizing tips before ordering since it varies depending on the set.

Susan Shaw Cross Ring – Anything from Susan Shaw will not disappoint. I have gifted this ring to a few people, and it’s always a hit. It’s adjustable, too, so you don’t need to know their ring size. This ring does sell out frequently but often restocks, so if the cross ring is sold out, try the rectangle or round version instead.

Beauty Sets – From Rhode lip gloss + blush duos to mini perfume samplers from Lake & Skye one, these are fun and probably something she wouldn’t buy herself. Nordstrom and Sephora are the perfect places to grab nice beauty sets, (especially during the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale).

Tortoise Wine Glasses – A fun, chic upgrade to her bar cart that’s guaranteed to earn compliments. I own these and love them, and gave them to my son’s preschool teachers last year. (More Amazon gift ideas here.)

Affordable Jewelry – BaubleBar and Electric Picks make high-quality jewelry that doesn’t feel cheap. These gold huggies are so dainty, beautiful, and right at $50.

ESV New Testament Set – A thoughtful gift for the Christian woman who probably already has way more devotional books than she can get through. I like taking these to church when we’re studying through one book of the bible vs. toting my full-size bible (which gets heavy when I’m already loaded down with my son’s diapers and water bottle).

ZIIP Halo – A microcurrent device that lifts and firm the skin and is a bit bougie. I absolutely love this thing; see my ZIIP review with insane before-and-afters.

Vieve Lipstick – Vieve was founded by a makeup artist, and all the shades flatter mature skin tones and feel incredibly creamy. The packaging is pretty too – this is my favorite lipstick to use and gift. If she’s more of a gloss person, grab one of the best lip glosses I’ve tried.

Red Light Mask – Helps with fine lines, texture, and glow, perfect for the skincare device. I own two and like the CurrentBody red light mask best.

T3 AireBrush – A salon-quality blowout at home, minus the arm workout. I’ve owned multiple brands and models, and the T3 Airebrush is the one you want. I actually included this one in my Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Beauty roundup too, so if you’re going to buy it, now’s the time. Sale prices don’t last.

Eyeshadow Palette – Think YSL, Vieve, or Tarte – pigmented, blendable, and flattering on everyone.

Simple Everyday Earrings – Try the Lab Grown Sapphire Marquise Cut Studs or Tube Huggie Hoops from Mejuri.

Adjustable Ring – I mentioned this above, but rings can be hard to buy unless you know her size, and that’s where adjustable rings come in. I’ve gifted Susan Shaw’s adjustable ring to multiple people and plan to gift Sezane’s Celia Ring and Alice Ring to a few friends this year. 

Statement Earrings – Get her a unique pair she can wear daily or something sparkly for special occasions. These gold knot earrings by Heaven Mayhem are a perfect daily gift, and I’ve yet to meet someone who doesn’t like them. For a sparkly pair, I’d be elated to get these pear drop earrings from Aurate.

Simple Necklace or Classy Bracelet – Dainty gold chains, pearls, or tennis bracelets are timeless and hard to get wrong, especially if they have an adjustable length. You can’t beat this satellite necklace (both the look and price point) or this classic tennis bracelet.